About Sho-Sho Smith

Welcome! I’m Sho-Sho Smith. I teach real-world connection skills that help people deepen their sense of self, understand attraction, and reach their sex and relationship goals.

For Couples

I help couples reconnect, repair and see each other with fresh eyes, sexually and relationally. We will uncover your truest and deepest needs for love and trust, as well as sexual exploration and expansion. That may include re-establishing traditional structures like marriage, consciously uncoupling with love or opening up monogamous relationships to polyamory, role-play and fantasy, kink and BDSM.  

For Men

I guide men in understanding women and seduction, helping them compassionately unravel ideas of masculinity, erectile performance and porn dependence.

As a Chinese-American practitioner, I am especially passionate about supporting Asian-American men and BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, People of Color) men of color in healing their racial identity around sexuality and masculinity.

For Women

I bring women on personal journeys through extreme self-care, relationship grief and sexual freedom. Within this safe space, women find themselves restored, adored and able to find their glow again. 

I especially support Asian-American women and BIPOC women of color in dismantling racial narratives of beauty and worth that influence their sexuality and relationships.

Bio

I became a Somatica-trained sex and relationship coach after my husband of 20 years died of cancer. No stranger to grief, I launched my private practice, F U R T H E R M O R E Sex and Relationship Coaching, to help individuals and couples go from barely surviving to truly thriving.

I am training in Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS) and in being a sex educator for kids and teens, as well becoming a death doula out of my deep respect for the sacred nature of death and dying. I am also a writer, mother, founder and former-Fortune 500 corporate dropout.

Follow me on Instagram: @socialshosho Read more on medium.com: @shoshosmith

Transformational from the first session

We begin with a free 20 minute consultation where you can share your story. My clients are diverse, locally, national and international. Our sessions last 75-90 minutes and can be done remotely via video, fully vaccinated in-person for locals, or a combination of both. I also offer half-day, full-day and multi-day intensives. Multi-days include private onsite room and board.

The work is transformational from the first session. Throughout, you’ll experience dynamic combinations of relationship lab, experiential coaching and IFS therapy, somatic exercises and body awareness techniques, grief and shadow work, childhood/family history, mentorship and re-parenting. Above all, we create a safe space just for you. The journey that begins just one step outside your comfort zone. I look forward to hearing your story.

Schedule your free consultation below.